So I have this huge crush on my guy friend. I've told him about it and he was super nice and normal afterwards because I was nervous that it would make things weird. Anyway, he lacks self confidence and said that he never clued in because he never believed someone would like him. Since I told him, I'm starting to wonder if he's starting to develop feelings because he knows how I feel. Just little things like I'll catch him looking at me and when we walk somewhere we get really close and our arms touch etc. Maybe I'm just dreaming it all and he doesn't think of me like that at all... but anyway I've been thinking more and more about just coming out and asking him If he wants to me more friends . .. with benefits. I don't have a lot of sexual experience, And I'm super comfortable with him and I know he'd be really caring and sweet. I've never met anyone I've actually pictured myself with in the long term before, And it's depressing thinking that I'm just drumming this all up in my head. I haven't made up my mind yet, and before I do I'll think it through carefully. But if I did decide to ask ... how would I do it?