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Old May 10, 2017, 07:45 AM
Depressed-Fiance Depressed-Fiance is offline
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Originally Posted by Rose76 View Post
Suppose you leave her. What if you find yourself more miserable afterwards?

I actually don't know just how nasty a woman she is, or isn't. Clearly, she's got some very off-putting tendencies. But you gravitated toward her, for something she offered, that you thought you needed. Possibly, you may not be done needing that.
I'm not sure how I could feel more miserable after leaving her. Ok, maybe because I won't be used to not having her around or doing things with her?

I think she has abused me to the point of submission, and by that I mean making me 'depend' on her?

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Originally Posted by nicoleflynn View Post
Being with an abuser is like drinking poison every day. Abusers rarely change unless they admit their abuse and want to change. They are excruciatingly insecure and take out their anger at others. They have issues they refuse to look at or admit. Everything is someone else's fault in their world.
She has never admitted to her abuse or even acknowledging that she has a problem. Her father has even said that he is sure she has some anger issues from her previous marriage in which she was abused both verbally and physically..........not that I'm condoning her actions/behaviour.

You are spot on, she always blames me or the kids for her behaviour and it's always our fault.
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