i know your probably right in that its her body and her business. but its gotten to the point where it's affected me. like i really can't get it off my mind... if shes supposed to be a role model and a healthy person for me to look up to, how can i after that. i wish it wasn't visible and i just didn't know it was there. but i saw it. and i saw her eyes. they just screamed at me... she has been self-disclosing about her E.D before because i have problems with that. but i don't want to make her uncomfortable. on the other hand why would she wear a 3/4 length shirt on a snowy winter day? she could have easily gotten away with a long sleeve to cover it. its just really getting to me...