I agree. I tried to get close, but she didn't let me get close enough to do that. I did give her an ultimatum. She told me last night she was just upset with him but she might still want to be friends with him. I have her the ultimatum. She had an emotional affair with this guy and the only way to move forward in rebuilding our marriage and trust is if she cuts this guy off completely. If she really wants to rebuild and move forward, that has to happen. It's totally up to her at this point in which direction she wants to go. Im just waiting to hear back from her