We do. We've been in marriage counseling with my T since it happened, and while it has improved the communication overall in our relationship, it does nothing for my PTSD.

As I anticipated, my husband is extremely unhappy with this recent turn of events. I know it drives him bonkers that I hold stuff in, but that's the nature of the beast when it comes to PTSD. I don't expect him to understand that.

This too shall pass. *sigh*