yea sorry pink maybe my title didn't quite fit the post. she has done a good amount of self-disclosure, but all related to what i'm going through, and only if i ask. its not like she sits and talks about herself for an hour, thats not it at all. i told her i like it when she tells me stuff. but she did say that she used to be very sick, and she said "you name it, i did it" so im guessing that means shes SI before. if she did SI, it doesn't make her differnet, no, but it makes me look at her different. shes more human i guess. it just kinda scares me. i think i have to say something now. it's gotten to the point where i need to. i just dont want to offend her or have it come off the wrong way like it did in this post. but your right, its my therapy, so i shouldn't be worried about how she will feel if i bring it up. ..right? but its hard because i really care about her so i DO care how she will feel. ohhhh therapy. so complicated.