This is how I understand Rose76 Post:

There is something you saw and or needed in this woman which made you choose her.

If you are not done needing that specific thing, you may end up with dating a carbon copy of her in the future.

So its important to identify what need it is she met in you, in order for you to address it.

Example: Maybe you had a need to submit to the will of another... Just because you're done being submissive with her does not mean you wont seek out another domineering partner...

Patterns tend to repeat themselves until we figure them out.