Did you just tolerate everything until you couldn't anymore?? Before you sought the divorce lawyer, my appt is next week, and I am already getting anxious about it. I have lived my entire life just here, for others, I don't know how to do for myself, I thought I could just stay in the house with him and just deal like I always have, but something is making me just not able to do this.

What a Christmas present I will be giving my kids if I manage to get him out before Christmas, I hate hurting my kids, I hate seeing them hurt!!!!