((((((((((misinfiniti))))))))))))
This is always a hard time to go through. I'm sorry for your loss....that's exactly what it is isn't it, a loss in your life?? No matter how things were in your marriage, when it's disolved, it is a loss. I do so hope it gets easier for you soon. Remember to take care of you and allow those feelings of loss to play out. Time does heal wounds and makes things easier down the road.
Wishing you well!

sabby