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Originally Posted by CurlySue
missunderstood: i have been where you are. the hardest thing i had to learn was loving my father in spite of the verbal abuse because i could not change him. Only the way i responded to him , i'm happy to talk if you are
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Thats true. I dont mind loving him i just cant live with him. I try to keep my mouth shut as much as possible so i dont trigger him. I also understand that he grew up with verbal and physical abuse from his father. He let it affect his ability as a parent. Im making it my goal not to be like him to my children.