I agree. Up until 2005 I was an outgoing, trusting, sociable person who liked being with people. A terrible work situation from 2005 until 2009 changed me. Now I am very wary of people I don't know, even long-time friends. I feel like I must be an unlikeable person. I miss people but so fearful of being around them. I can't risk taking a chance of trusting again. It just hurts too much.