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Old May 11, 2017, 03:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Moment View Post
I guess I wasn't clear. I was thinking that in the triad, MC would be in your father's role, you would be your mother's role, and H would be in the role that *you* were as a child.

In other words, this time around, H would be the excluded one. And this time, you'd have the satisfaction of being the one with the special relationship with your "dad."

But, you know, I think everyone we know can play myriad transference roles in our minds....
Oh, I see...though, I could also still put H in my mom's role, only in this case, my "dad" loves me more than he does my "mom." Which would also leave H left out, but would fit better with my childhood stuff. Plus the typical Freudian stuff about little girls vying with their mom for their dad's affections and such.