It's possible. I worry about how my posts effect others. Today my H said something that made me think he had just read what I had just posted. I won't bother asking him because he's lied about it before and then was caught! I also try to tread lightly here because so many people at PC are discouraged about life--past trauma, and all the rest of it. But, on balance, my posts have probably done more good than harm. That's what matters. Thanks for responding Thunder Bow.