ive worked a few homeless shelters... both giving and receiving... the food arrives, there is always a mad dash ... some are more 'assertive' than others and over time a hierarchy of the food chain is established..

new members often hang back, figuring out the correct order.. some are well experienced and push to the front..

this sometimes causes a reaction...

but rationality soon steps in in almost all cases and the 'correct order' is once again established..

what i'm saying is intended to benefit those who are holding back posting...

push right in there... there's enough to go around for everyone...