That depends entirely on you and what is okay with you.

I happily agreed to have a non labeled relationship as long as it was exclusive (labels were just too overwhelming for both of us at the time) and we also mutually agreed to just take it one day at a time and enjoy the now, instead of focusing on the future.

Years later we are still together and more committed to each other than ever.

I get why people want or need labels, I guess for some it spells security, at one stage I thought I needed it too, but I've found labels in itself to be quite limiting in its own way. Creating pressures and expectations that some of us function better without.

So as I said in the beginning its really up to you, is the label and being able to use it more important than the substance and quality of the relationship?