I have trust issues with men. And I recently had him move out but we're still dating which is hard for me bc I have borderlne pd and usually I just run and end it when things get too intimate. I'm trying to break this pattern and hold the relationship in a gray area instead of black and white. Basically he came over and spent the night and never left for three months. I do love him but I am feeling his tentacles sucking the life out of me. Yes loads of stress, younger son for weekend, his transmission went out, I'm having backlash financial problems from manic episode. I'm going to the NAMI meeting now, gonna talk about this. Thanks for your even listening and suggestions. This site grounds me. Preciate it