She said 'if you overreacted or started being annoying'... I think she is bothered by you sometimes. Do you think you overreact or can be annoying to her?

She thinks it's ok to treat you that way because you are very close friends and she's annoyed. Could it be your actions causing the problem here?

Of course, she could have been kinder. But, sometimes the best of us get on our friends nerves.