It's always more complicated when mods also post as members. I can see how it would be important for all the mods and admin to be able to communicate with all the members if necessary within their role as mod or admin. Perhaps it's the personal posts that pegasus wishes to be able to ignore in order to take care of herself. Though it's an additional complication, if somehow posts made in the role of mod and posts made personally could be distinct, maybe that could help?

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