Like the previous posters have said it depends on how important it is to you to put a label on it and I can understand why you would want to. I would at some point. What do you tell other people he is? Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell is a good example of a couple that have never put a label on their relationship. On the other hand, I had a roommate whose boyfriend had commitment anxiety and it took him 7 years to propose to her. She was very patient with him and he finally came around. Did you mention how long you had been dating?