I wouldn't want to talk to my T just to let him know how I am. I think that would ruin my therapeutic relationship. He is not my friend, he is my therapist. I want my conversations to me needed. I want his voice to sound special. I only call him if I absolutely need to.

I am not his only client. What if everyone called him all the time just to chat? He wouldn't have a life. He needs time away also. My T has a family with small children. He does his job very well and is always there. He needs to be refreshed. He listens to very hard stuff all day.

I appreciate all he has done for me.