I know what you mean. I have been hurt so many times in my life that it has made me hard hearted and bitter with extreme trust issues. I wish I could give you some great advice but I honestly can't when I'm struggling with the same stuff. I have confronted some people who have hurt me, but they denied all of it...which made me so angry that I was shaking and my heart felt like it was going to explode. I want revenge...but I believe God has something better in store for them due to the fact they refuse to take any sort of responsibility for their actions. I guess what all this boils down to is...you are not alone in this.