I am thinking of this again because I met with ex t in various different organisations she worked in.
It never crossed my mind that this was unethical. It made me feel special and like my t trusted me. I never asked her why we had to meet somewhere other than her house. It never occurred to me to ask. At the time it was exciting but now I wonder what she got out of it.
Have you ever met your t outside of therapy and how was it for you?