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Old May 12, 2017, 03:18 PM
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Originally Posted by Waterbear View Post
I wouldn't do it. It would freak me out, and I do think that it would be more about her than me, especially if it was her that requested it. If she suggested it, as she thought it would help, I think that there would need to be a lot of questions and thoughts and feelings raised first. Even when my T first got her dedicated therapy room in the garden (vs using the conservatory) it really weirded me out when we went to look at it one day. It took quite some preparation and adjustment for me to be vaguely comfortable with the idea of changing locations.

That said, I have asked T if, when and if I feel ready, she would walk with me, and she has said that yes, she would, after we had talked it through and both decided we were happy with it all.


I think it is more about my t and for her benefit. Especially one time when she asked a favour, she knows that I would have done anything for her and took advantage of that.
I think that talking about it like you and your did would be very helpful and insightful. If it happens with another t I would need to ask why and what their motivation is exactly.
I hope your walking with your t goes well.