Have you considered couples counselling? Perhaps if your boyfriend knew what you wanted in a relationship, he would be willing to try out new things with you. He may even be secretly interested in doing some of those things but is too shy to mention it. A good couples counsellor could help you address that. Aside from going to a couples counsellor, I see two other options:

1. Leave your boyfriend and start anew (much easier said than done...I only recently left an unhappy relationship that I should have ended much sooner).
2. Stay with your boyfriend and do your best to adapt to his style of life (easier to do but probably more damaging in the end)

I would personally recommend counselling. Do whatever you can to save this relationship so that if you do decide to break it off in the future, you'll know that you did everything you could. I wish you all the best!