Well, I still have the autonomic response of fear when he gets angry - even when rationally I know he won't hurt me, but at least he understands better now. We've only been talking about it for days...*sigh*

Anyway, my pdoc wants me to do CBT on this instead of EMDR, which is fine. My therapist is good at it. We've done it before, it's just I usually prefer EMDR. The T I have now doesn't do EMDR anyway, so it's all good.

Thanks everyone!

WW