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Originally Posted by atisketatasket
I rather like CW's refusal to answer any personal questions and also her ability to avoid mentioning any personal stuff. I have never been much interested in the other therapists' lives, though they volunteered stuff.
But OP, I am curious, why would knowing her favorite colors help you? I could see how knowing she loves dogs and you do too could help you bond, but not colors. (The only person in my life whose favorite color I know is my mother, and that information is about thirty years old.)
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It's not so much
knowing what her favorite color is... it's basically, "Well, you won't tell me ANYTHING, but will you at least tell me your favorite color?" Nope, not even that.
Though, to stopdog's point, my T could just lie about everything. Dunno.
I just don't see the harm in hiding your favorite color. I mean, I was testing the waters to see how much she would be willing to tell about herself, hence the color question. There is a bonding piece (as you mentioned) that I think can be useful/healthy. Obviously color isn't going to create bond, but you know... "i like bikes!" "oh, me too!" is much more meaningful