Ive found a good time to ask my t questions is when he's half asleep midway thru a boring session, maybe his guard is down. Also when its close to his birthday or xmas, he always likes to say how many shopping days until.

I just realized i do know his favorite color, but a) its an alma mater of his and b) its like the only color i hate so talking about it always gets my back up.

But its not like i PLAN questions. I get the feeling he is kind of amused by them, because i am just plucking them out of the air, and we are both just going along with the process. Its usually not too long before the questions lead to something more intense. Like this week i asked if he dressed up his dogs. He said no, but they do have U hoodies for when its too cold. Too sweet!