he is not secretive at all, or about most things, especially about his dislikes and likes, every day life, his family, etc. he has a trauma history which he has shared with me over time, appropriately. and has struggled with MI hisself. with that said he does not share some things, like i suspect he and his wife lost a baby recently (she was pregnant and maybe miscarried?). of course he did not bring that up with me