I think that being TRULY CARING has to be my top value in others. When I moved to a whole new place at the age of 54, I encountered people who have truly cared about me & it taught me what real caring feels like & it also has taught me that it is ok to care about others the same way.

After growing up with parents for 21 years & then living in a marriage with a H incapable of emotionally connecting it was an amazing learning process of HOW TO develop what was inside of me wanting to come out being taught by example of the wonderful new people in my life.

All the other good traits just seem to come along with people who are TRULY CARING because you can't be TRULY CARING without having all the other good traits too.....it all comes together when you do LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR.