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Old May 13, 2017, 11:55 PM
Sarmas Sarmas is offline
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Originally Posted by annielovesbacon View Post
I get so frustrated with myself (and I worry my T gets frustrated with me, too) because I can never express how I feel. I feel like a little kid or maybe someone who can't speak the language -- it seems like the only words I have are "bad" or "okay" or "I don't know." She presses me to explain, and it's so hard.
The thing is, I know conceptually how I feel. But I don't have words for the feelings! I want to tell her that I am feeling [feeling], but I literally do not know how.
Does anyone else struggle with this? Can I get past this? I feel so dumb and frustrated.
I struggle with this all of the time. Sometimes I give up and just don't say anything. I suppress lots of things and sometimes I don't realize that I do. When I try to explain myself I think to myself that it will sound stupid so I don't say anything. I find myself at a loss for words.

Perhaps you can try to prepare prior to your season and find the words then in order to be able to communicate and be able to express yourself in session.
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Thanks for this!
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