Kashi sounds a lot like my EMDR T. We talked about it ( it wasn't a problem ) and I said I thought some would censure his approach - he said that's the way he does therapy. He also says you have to be careful not to turn the client into your T. Talk to Kashi , sometimes things are unconscious or things we're not used to ( I go OMG - he's so HUMAN - I'm not used to that ! ). I think it's probably a little unusual for a T.