did not meet anyone on line but have lost interest in sex with the wife .. been married 35 years so maybe that is normal ... IDK ... but I have been on lamotrigine for at least 2 years ... during that time my erections have been getting steadly weaker ... since before christmas total impotent ... this is the reason I tried to get off the lamotrigine ... no luck on either ... I do not suggest you quit your med ... the result for me was exstream and very dangerous as I got very si ... but maybe ask your dr ... remember you have suffered a shock to you self esteam , on line anything is iffy .. maybe see a Theapist ... I also have lost interest in masturbationing to porn also ....

I feel your pain dude ... I have no answers for you ... (but I would suggest a good T .. one specializing on sexual issues) .. also see your pdoc and maybe get checked out by your gp (some med issues can cause this) ... either way be gentle with yourself ... your young I am sure you will be humping again soon ...

good luck .. and peace my friend .... Tigger.