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Old May 14, 2017, 11:26 AM
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Originally Posted by BayBrony View Post
If you grew up in an abusive home, one of the goals of therapy is to internalize a voice that models healthy self love and boundaries. Most of the time, that is your Ts voice in part. So it sounds like you are starting on that process
Yes, agreeing-- when my T suggested I internalize their voice as a replacement of the voice of my critic/bad parents', I was confused. I wondered if it was having bad boundaries to do that. It felt very transgressive to keep the voice of my T with me this way, a red flag of sorts.
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Thanks for this!
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