Have you talked to "grace" about your thoughts? Perhaps she is experiencing the same feelings and you guys can further help each other through this.

Just keep in mind that the "easy" way isn't so easy in the end, and it's almost never the best way. The fact that you made a pact with another to help both of you leads me to believe that you are a strong and caring individual...stronger than the whims of your mind and tummy.

(((njgirl)))