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Originally Posted by Crypts_Of_The_Mind
Disregarding how I feel about him not being willing to share his beer with you - this time, this was your beer. You have complete right to drink beer you bought. He never has a right to push, shove, or otherwise maliciously put his hands on you - but this time, neither was there a reason for him to get upset.
I would be interested at this point to know if you see any blame for this in you, and if so how.. and what, if any, blame you assign to him?
I am also curious - if you were left to your own vices at this point, how do you see yourself attempting to handle this situation?
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There's no uses in blaming anyone. No he had no right to hurt me, this was going on for a while, in a manipulative way. I asked him what he was thinking, he said "i guess I wanted to boss you around".... the guitar thing was a sudden change, so was his becoming self obsessed and drinking more, being selfish had worsened, and doubling his illegal cannabis smoking in the last few months.
I ended it. End of story, there are so many things I could say, but it is never right for anyone to abuse anyone by hitting, pushing, or verbally degrading someone with information they use that you gave them in trust.
Thanks everyone