There's no uses in blaming anyone. No he had no right to hurt me, this was going on for a while, in a manipulative way. I asked him what he was thinking, he said "i guess I wanted to boss you around".... the guitar thing was a sudden change, so was his becoming self obsessed and drinking more, being selfish had worsened, and doubling his illegal cannabis smoking in the last few months.

I ended it. End of story, there are so many things I could say, but it is never right for anyone to abuse anyone by hitting, pushing, or verbally degrading someone with information they use that you gave them in trust.

Thanks everyone