I always thought if I were to hit a guy I should be prepared to get hit back. Knowing there was a good chance it would happen and the fact that guys have way more strength than I do, I rarely hit a guy. Luckily the three times (2 different guys) I hit first ended up with the guys puting me in a bear hug.

I was brutally beaten by my boyfriend (now ex) last November without any physical provocation. I NEVER hit back and actually did everything I could to protect myself since he almost killed me.

Unless the girl has superhuman strength, a 2x4 with protruding nails and a back up army the man needs to control his anger.