my mother is still alive in her 50's.

as I think I mentioned in another thread, she's not in the country anymore and does not want to talk to me, not even look at a picture of me.

while I feel guilty for not making an effert to wish her a happy mothers day, what can I do

she's in africa, she refuses to read any emails from me, you know... it has to work both ways.

I posted a thread recently and 1 of the things that came up in that thread, was to make peace with your mom before she's no longer around, as you don't want things left unsaid (and that happened with my grandfather). he died, and I had so much left to say to him.

in this instance though, if she's not interested in hearing from me, I don't know where to start