Kashi emailed me back and one of the things he said was this: "The boundary on this had to do with liability and my license. And yes I am flexing the intial boundary, after about 8 months, because I know you better and I feel comfortable to do that. In that regard I think it is an excellent example of how boundaries can change over time as people's understanding of each other changes! ".

So I guess iwill be asking him on sat what his thoughts on boundaries are in general.