He was offering you nothing. He sounds like a very disturbed and angry man.

Maybe because I grew up in a home colored by anger, I've always been turned off of men who demonstrate tendencies toward anger. (I always loved guys who could make me laugh.) It is hard to find someone worth being with when you're no longer real young. (It wasn't easy then, either, come to think of it.) My approach was to just keep discarding men who were unsuitable and see what was around the next corner. So, there were a lot of men, but I never stayed bogged down too long in something that was hopeless. My longtime bf I'm with now for many years is no prize, but we've had a lot of happiness, and I feel loved. Without that, I'ld rather be alone.