My 23 YO son lives at home and is going to college. He has suffered from anger and depression from many years but would not take meds. He is now seeing a pdoc and a tdoc and is on a low dose of Lexapro. His dad and I thought he was doing a lot better. He is currently looking for a summer job which may be causing some stress.

His sister has access to his FB. His dad and I do not. His sister says he is publishing things again that he is very depressed. I am worried about him hurting himself. I texted him to just generically tell him I love him and support him and am here for anything. (I have bipolar.)

I texted his tdoc to let her know. I have not heard back.

We are scheduled to go away for three days. I am worried about going. But this is the second time I have missed a trip due to his depression. Of course, I'd never forgive myself if anything happened.

Can anyone give me some advice?