Rant: When someone is an amazing friend (always there for their friend, always available, a shoulder to cry on, helping whenever needed, etc) they get neglected, they get pushed aside or they get stepped on.
But, when someone is an asshole of a friend (not available, only texts back a week later, emotionally detached, chooses others over you) then people flock to be their friend and are loyal to these asshole friends.
What's the deal here? Why is it this way?