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Old Dec 07, 2007, 01:59 AM
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lol it's okay I don't mind questions.
I stopped seeing her because she was my counselor at my High School and then i graduated. She still works there (and only there) so i can't see her in that way anymore, and I don't live anywhere near my High School anyways.

We ended things .. really well. Our last session was really good, she told me to stay in touch, and that now she "was just an older woman, keeping in touch with another woman" - to kind of break the therapeutic boundaries. And I've seen her a couple times since then (we've went out for coffee, etc when i was visiting) and she's always really happy to see me .... but i still feel like i'm imposing when i contact her.

I know i could contact her if i wanted (and i do), but, I cant help but feel like she's really thinking "common now, I haven't been your T in a year and 1/2, why are you still bugging me?" In my heart, I don't think thats true ... but this is one of those cases where my brain keeps telling me that she wouldn't want to keep in touch with someone like me ... I was just another client.

Anyhow, does that answer your questions? lol ... i feel like i've just been rambling on about her for a good while! (Sorry to those that really don't care!!)
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