I can relate as far as the Wellbutrin goes.
When I got off of it, I was able to notice such a positive difference. Wellbutrin made me super agitated and anxious. Although it suppressed my appetite, it was worth getting off of it. In my case, it even caused me to rapidly cycle. I really hope you find a pdoc who you like that takes you seriously. If you want, you can tell her that you don't feel your concerns are being taken seriously. Otherwise, getting a referral from someone you trust would likely be a good option and is personally the route I would take. Regardless, I am sorry about what you are going through and hope you feel better soon.