Maybe you could pull together all the information you have on your Mother & take it to the police. I have been scammed several times...once by the home care person that manipulated her way into caring for my Mother when she was dying of cancer & just last week when my ID information was stolen at the Motel I was staying at & then when the guy broke into my truck at the motel early that morning.

The gottcha is that I am very sure who did it....everything points there & they will get theirs one way of another because I have name & address & phone # thanks to some very cooperative businesses & a detective that is working with me. If is was just the ID theft, I wouldn't be involved in what is going on, but my flute & jewelry box were innocent bystanders in the bag that was stollen & for them, I am digging to provide all the information I can get on them.

You might be able to provide the police with some very necessary information on your Mother.

I don't think it's a matter of why bad people get everything because they do have to live with themselves knowing what they are doing (even if they don't have a conscience) they will be gotten even with sometime down the line in the future (karma or whatever one wants to call it). That I truely believe.

I would rather be able to live with myself & be happy with who I am even if I have to struggle getting enough money to get by. Being happy with myself is the most important thing in my life & knowing that I am doing what is right in Gods sight is what I base my life on.

Sad part about the theft from my truck last week is that is really looks like the motel clerk stole my information to help out the lady by purchasing kids shoes & paying her water bill that was not paid since Aug 2 & was to be turned off. It looks like he was trying to do good with the credit information he stole & the flute & jewelry were not planned....but he may think that he can get more money with that....I don't know how they will try to dispose of that...or maybe throw it away so as not to get caught with it.

Sad when possibly good people feel they can only turn to bad to get something they need to get help that is so needed.

We need to work on stopping the bad people because if they continue getting away with it, it just reinforces the bad behavior....that is why it's important to take the bad seriously & try our best to stop it where we can & fight back against it rather than shutting our eyes to it.

Debbie