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Originally Posted by Sassandclass
Rant: When someone is an amazing friend (always there for their friend, always available, a shoulder to cry on, helping whenever needed, etc) they get neglected, they get pushed aside or they get stepped on.
But, when someone is an asshole of a friend (not available, only texts back a week later, emotionally detached, chooses others over you) then people flock to be their friend and are loyal to these asshole friends.
What's the deal here? Why is it this way?
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Just like they said asholes have confidence. I had always wonder about this and it's actually pretty stupid the way it works. We tent to be more pure and quiet, at least I am, when trying to start a friendship but most of the time they'll go for the ones who are not like that. Just like how they say "women are only attracted to asholes who don't treat them with respect". Not that it's true, or at least not all of them.