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Originally Posted by tryingtobeconstruct
Reaching out to me. If I'm low, I don't want to have to always call people to get some help. If they know I'm in crisis mode, I want them to proactively check in on me. If they don't I take that as a sign they're not really friends (and I think I'm accurate in that).
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If I might make a side point:
I'm one of those people who like to reach out. But at times, I've been told by the people in crisis mode that they "just need to be left alone". One friend didn't even want to be contacted at all when she was down.
What do you suggest to show that you care, but let your friend deal with it however they need (ie: being alone)