Hello White Witch: I'm sorry you find yourself in these difficult circumstances. I cannot comment on them myself. However since this is your first post here on PC... to PsychCentral… from the Skeezyks! May the time you spend here be of benefit. By the way, there is a Smoking Cessation forum here on PC:

https://forums.psychcentral.com/smoking-cessation/

And also a general addictions forum as well:

https://forums.psychcentral.com/addictions/

You might want to consider posting in these forums with regard to your husband's smoking concerns if you have not already done so.

PsychCentral is a great place to get information as well as support for mental health issues. The more you post, & reply to other members’ posts, the more a part of the community you will become. Plus there are social groups you can join & chat rooms where you’ll be able to connect with other PC members in real time (once your first 5 posts have been reviewed & approved.) Lots of great stuff! So please keep posting!