I'm so sorry your mom has reached this point. You will be in my thoughts and prayers, and I'm sure others here will support you in your loss. I will support children and adults in anyway I can. I do that in honor of my mom now, why wait until they have passed on to help people? She raised me to be a good person and to be respectful of all people, on all levels. For this I live my life to honor her. It's would be easier to sit back and watch the pain of others and just dwell on my own issues. But part of healing our issues comes from helping others, I think. You are a very kind and caring soul and a good man. You have done very well to take care of yourself.