Well, now you have to balance your checkbook, to see if you can afford to get the trunk painted.

Why don't you take your checkbook in to T and work on it together? I did that with my husband before we were married. I trusted him enough not to hurt me and he was wonderful, looked it all over carefully then said some really nice things before we even started (like that I wasn't spending more than I was making/able to pay back; I wasn't in debt) that I hadn't known. But his organization skills and quiet manner were just what I needed and the relief was unbelievable.

New type of "play" therapy; you can talk while you work.